Why did you go to the pdoc in the first place, greysfan? Did another doc send you? From your post, I can't tell if you tried to fool a pdoc by creating symptoms, or if you truly have a mood disorder that you are having trouble grasping. Yes, your behaviors are all a part of being a teenager/young adult, and these are behaviors that anyone, young or old, might display at times; however, there are many other physical aspects to bp that make it a disorder.
I hope that all of your symptoms are just a phase that you are going through as a young adult. This would be much easier than dealing with bp for the rest of your life.
Good luck!