I agree with bluemountains. hey I shouold have abreviated that hehe. Anyway back on topic. I agree Im sorry he uses your kids as leverage like that its unfortunate, he must not understand mania at all. And Dblmonkey has got it correct although everytime I disregaurd saftey well accept money as I dont have any to spend literally. So cheers to you monkey good advice. And HB I hope things work out for the best and you have an amazing day at work or as best you can at a place of work.