scorpiosis, I didn't want to ignore your response to me because it's so true. It's just that I'm embarrassed about my age, especially on the psych forum where I'm one of the oldest. I kmow 60 is the new 40, and 80 the new 60, but I also have 2 friends my age who died within the last 2 years. It's scary for me, and I talk to my T about it. So, there's a topic that has nothing to do with my relationship with her. My Mom's death at 68 is a factor. Thanks so much for sharing about your Dad!!! Yes, he changed and is a wonderful role model for me and others who think like me! I am very happy for you that he changed his life around like that. I also have my own father as a model because he kept painting until he was in his 90's and couldn't hold the brush anymore!

For me, it's part of my negative thinking and attitudes. But I have done some things recently that I've wanted to do my whole life and haven't. I know it's never too late, but I need to act on that more.

Thank you for your post.