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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
So what's more important, T's experience of working through all issues previously with someone, or the closeness in relationship, so I can say "ouch that hurts" openly with T and for T to listen and hear that?
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Can't you have both?
Otherwise it's hard to tell and it does kind of depend on the issue you need to work with the T. You don't need an expert in the field but you do need someone who knows what's he doing. For a T to be able to "only" acknowledge that stg was hurtful for you- no, I don't think that's enough.