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Originally Posted by Crescent Moon
If you are no longer being treated by your pdoc, you'll probably have to try to get it done through your gp. I don't know what kind of paperwork you're talking about, but here in the US, I think disability paperwork has to be filled out by a treating physician who is currently treating you. So if you aren't being treated for the disabling condition, it might be hard.. and that's assuming I've made the right assumption here.
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Thank you all. I have just been reading a bit about gestalt therapy ( my T is using it her work ) but I did not connect is to this. Just could make perfect sense explaining her behaviour and me being stressed sometimes ( wich has also been helpfull in someways)
I am sorry I have a hard time explaning the benefit stuff so you can understand it ( even in my native langaue I am a bit confused when having to explain it in details.
So maybe just a" Lonelybychoice 4 years old" explanation;-)
First.... I met T ( also my P) when I was in a very very bad state of stress and anxiety mostly do to work issues. She " ordered a sickleave" and I was fired do that ( wich was ok) then she said I should persue another career ( after she met me twice) and because I was fired I had the right to social security ( sorry if that is not the right term) AND that she would write to socialservice to tell them that I could not work in my field and she recommend them helping me and financial supporting me in getting another education/ or just a mentor in another field. Then I would be able to work like everyone else not needing disability cause my condition is related to my old proffesion ( Oh well
.)....well that never happend as I have posted about before.
So what happend is that she ignored me for three months and socialservice had me talk to every person on the planet and because they could not get medicalinformation from her the wanted another pdoc and a psychologist to evaluate me again ( for the third time the wonderd why she was not sending something). I do think it is the one who have treated you who should take responsibility, this is not impersonal yada yada stuff. Itīs is traumatizing being evaluated and have to talk about childhood stuff and have to say I can`t work in my field over an over again.
I hate and have HUGE anxiety ( and I think Healed84 decsribes it well ) disclosing personal issuses I might be a bit more extreme though. So I basically said " I am all good and donīt want to be sick and on socialsecurity anymore ( Did not want to go throw yet another detailed description of my issues).
So I am now of to some private insurance thing but they work under the goverment and have to know that I am cabaple to work fulltime and why not in my proffession. ( I had to sign a form for that) T said okey she would sent it to the other place then. I have asked again two weeks ago for those who wonders.
I still think I am asking why the papers on my diagnosis and stuff is not being sent by T. Neither to social serurity or the private one. Thats why I keep processing and thinking hmm...
Itīs not so much the money part ( well a bit ) but I am a big girl and would usually just go to a gp as you are all saying. Itīs just a funny ( read horrible horrieble feeling) I have issues with opening up and talking about mental health proffessionels ( like I dissociated half the time in the sessions with t because it is triggering to to childhood stuff and I pust trust in her) Thats why I thought of skillfull frustration. Maybe she is telling me to deal with it in a way to help me and not be depending on her and make my own choices and if those are bad ( like declaring my self able to work fulltime in other field when she recommend otherwise, just take the consequence ( spelling) and if I escape another pdoc, just ignoring me so I will have to go to a gp and practice that. Hmm head is just spinning as you might have noticed ...it is just frustrating.
Looooong rant donīt even read it.