healed, i don't know about you, but i would have been crushed.

the whole logical mind. ya, t probably wasn't in a good space to help you. i don't think phrasing it "can I ask you a favor?". that implies you have the choice to say "no"...

i know this is more me and my situation. and i think you were very gracious to say okay.
i don't know if i would have been as calm and understanding as you were.