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Originally Posted by minneymouse
There's a Dixie Chicks song I love called "I'm not ready to make nice". I'm just not ready yet T, to make nice with people who have caused me so much harm. I'm ok with that, but I'm not sure you are? "
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Yes I think it is OK to be angry and not be ready to "make nice" (love that song) - your rational mind may be able to get to a place to perspective take as your T suggests, but I think the feeling part of you, the angry part, definitely needs to be heard - I think you are damn right that when you were a child you deserved more and therefore have every right to feel anger as a result.