I am sorry your father's health is failing, Snuff. Here's an interesting thing; my T's father died in January and my father died in February. We have been able to be supportive for each other on this incident, whereas generally T insists we are here for me only. I sent T a card, and she appreciated it. Anyway, maybe I'm free associating too much here. But hang in there, Snuff. Remember the best times.