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Originally Posted by Rose Panachée
From what you wrote, your Ts attitude left a bad taste in my mouth ... I am sort of stuck about the part that you had to bring up the subject and she seemed to be so cavalier about it. AND the fact that she had a 'tude about it. Sorry!
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Yes I did feel she had an attitude about it to a degree (she seemed cold) while at the same time being honest. She said this was her flaw and it was her responsibility and if it's something I will continue to be angry (because she's late) about then she could help me find someone else. I suppose I wouldn't worry so much if I felt like I didn't have to keep track of the time.
I FEEL that for someone who is going through trauma therapy at least for me it's important to have SECURE BOUNDARIES. IF THERE ARE ANY T'S OUT THERE READING THIS TAKE THAT MESSAGE IN. YOUR CLIENTS WOULD APPRECIATE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AND APOLOGIES up front for being late ARE OK. IT MAY JUST SAVE YOUR CLIENT A LITTLE BIT OF ANGUISH!! 
My T2 did apologize for being late after I brought it up and lied about to me and herself about making up the time at the end when she runs late (at my appointment last week I had a 48 minute session). This week my appointment was an hour and 10 minutes. - I feel bad for the person after me.
Sorry for all the ranting. A nerve has been hit.
Just thought of something funny
I great goodbye present or something to bring in my next appointment - an EGG TIMER!!!!!
