Welcome, Sesame!

So he has good reasons, but there is no excuse for failing to alert clients, skipping over you, or smoking during a phone call.

(just kidding about the smoking one)

I'm sorry this is happening; it must be hurtful. So sorry. I suggest writing all of your thoughts and feelings and when you finally get to see him, ask him to please read your writing that you brought with you.

Good luck.