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Old Jul 19, 2012, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted by eastcoaster View Post
No contact actually hasn't been my experience with several of the Ts that I've had.
I have had contact with my T since my termination. I have a pretty scary thing coming up in my life tomorrow and I called him and he called me back and just listened to me and made soothing T noises and some suggestions. We actually talked yesterday too, when I first found out about the scary thing.

Our contact is casual, in that it's unplanned, but our boundaries/roles still feel very much in place. T is still T and I am still his client.

When we ended therapy, we agreed that we would trust that the level of contact would work itself out, and I think it is. If it feels like I need a lot of contact, then I might need to go back. But what I'm expecting is for the need to be less and less, aside from "peaks" like today/yesterday.
Thanks for this!
anilam