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Old Jul 20, 2012, 07:57 AM
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Originally Posted by button30 View Post
I know T's all have different boundaries and limits when it comes to their self disclosure but since I have started with my new T who is very open and honest about their own life and beliefs it seems the more I don't know about them the more I want to know(not in a creepy way) just curiousity.
T1, I didn't know anything about, I never asked either but I was seeing her for ever a year and didn't know if she was married, she never gave opinions or advice and certainly didn't tell me anything about herself but my new T has been open about beliefs their marriage, even has their own website with blogs about their beliefs and human rights and I don't find myself thinking about T2 as much. Just wondering has anyone else had experience with this?
In general, things that are "off limits" tend to spark our curiousity. Curiousity seems to make me obsess over those "off limits" things. T self-disclosure is good as long as it relates to what's being discussed in session. Most T's have haelthy boundaries around self-disclosure.