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Originally Posted by button30
I know T's all have different boundaries and limits when it comes to their self disclosure but since I have started with my new T who is very open and honest about their own life and beliefs it seems the more I don't know about them the more I want to know(not in a creepy way) just curiousity.
T1, I didn't know anything about, I never asked either but I was seeing her for ever a year and didn't know if she was married, she never gave opinions or advice and certainly didn't tell me anything about herself but my new T has been open about beliefs their marriage, even has their own website with blogs about their beliefs and human rights and I don't find myself thinking about T2 as much. Just wondering has anyone else had experience with this?
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In general, things that are "off limits" tend to spark our curiousity. Curiousity seems to make me obsess over those "off limits" things. T self-disclosure is good as long as it relates to what's being discussed in session. Most T's have haelthy boundaries around self-disclosure.