I know minimal things about my T. I know basics, such as her education/degree. And I also know that she is married with no kids. Other than that, I'm pretty much clueless about her [and I've been in therapy with her for many years]. Then again, I've never been much of the type of person to get up the courage and ask her the questions I've always wanted to. Her minimal self-disclosure has bothered me throughout my time with her, but I'm slowly starting to realize that it might be what is best for our therapeutic relationship. Ts come in all shapes and sizes.