Well, I think it is a lot to do with BP personally. I am horrible at change. But I also think it's human nature, too. You get to a place where you just are getting by enough that it's not a huge issue but it's not great either. Even if it's bad, it could be worse, right? So I think people get stuck.

I like that saying "better to light a candle than to curse the darkness." So, if you are really wanting to make the change, sometimes you have to light the candle, even if you're scared or stuck or feel unsure and not ready.

I'm stuck too. I get very stuck. And it's because I haven't been brave enough to light the candles around me.... You're not alone in being stuck.