Is anyone familiar with this experience? I seem to be unable to conceptualize him.

What I wanted to know more about is the deception of that alter. When I said I felt like a fraud during the session it was because that alters thoughts and feelings were not the same as he presented. That is the fraud. Up until now what you see was a reflection of what we were feeling. But he was feeling aggressive but with one or two exceptions he was "acting" docile. What does such behavior mean? What type of alter does that make him? Do you have anything that could help me understand him? That is really what I want to know. It is important to me because he makes me fee uneasy.