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sfosyd said:I really want to hear that this is not my wife acting this way, rather a condition which is what it seems to me.

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You nailed it.

As a lot of people on this board know much better than I, Bipolar Disorder can be hell--and it can be hell on spouses, too. Hopefully her Doc will be able to get her back on Lithium to help her even things out. "Externalizing" is a good strategy, I think. In other words, when she behaves like this, try to keep in mind that you're dealing with her symptoms.