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Originally Posted by 2or3things
So now I'm wondering if there's any correlation between body size and wanting to clutch a pillow/hide, etc. I mean, I know that at least for myself that it could have to do with wanting to hide my size.
I sometimes can't decide if I'm overweight to feel safer or if it's just because I like potatoes too much.
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oh yeah - stuffie is usually lying across my crotchal area. but it's not about the potatoes for me - it's about 1) not knowing HOW to take care of myself, having been a burden to my mother and 2) then, similarly, not knowing how to take care of myself when faced with unwanted attention. I have lost weight, then become so upset at who was attracted to me, and my inability to deflect them (they weren't hearing my no as no) that I would just blank out and disappear and get fat again. but T, I do feel absolutely safe with.