So meeting went well...he wouldnt even look me in the eyes though really. Just agreed with everything I said and we split the stuff the way we saw fit.

The car that belongs to me is still in his possession...all though he claims he is getting something lined up so he can get it back to me as soon as possible.

Then it was over. I was very sad(I cried in the car afterwards) but relieved that the meeting was over.

Or so I thought.

Just an hour ago my MIL called to inform me that my grandparents(whom I am very close to) called my stbxh and demanded he take the car back to me and "do the right thing"...and that he is "doing me wrong".

Yeah, that was EXACTLY what I needed.

I didnt think I would have to worry about my family getting ape**** crazy and harass him.

I am trying to keep everything as civil as can be. and my own flesh and blood made things worse and caused me worse pain.

My stbxh called me though and told me it was okay(I apologized for their actions) and he knew it wasnt me and he understands that they were angry. He was very nice about it.