My T discloses whatever I ask and its almost nothing. I don't like knowing a lot about him. I know the basics like his bday, the area he lives, he's married, his kids name and age, where he went to school, and why he became a therapist, and random stuff. Half of that info was very triggering for me and was a lot to work through. He also is very open and honest about when things come up. Like when his brother in law got had a seizure and he couldn't call me like we arranged, or when he has child care issues, dentist appointments. Idk life stuff just comes up in session sometimes. I don't mind. Finding out he had a kid was hard to work through because I have hardcore parental transference.