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Originally Posted by AbandonmentIssues
Because we agreed that he would keep the car until he got himself another vehicle(which he claims he is working on, but I am only giving him a couple of months).
then my family goes behind my back and steps out of line. that is why I am upset, they are making things more complicated.
I dunno why I continue to put him first...I guess Im just used to it.
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I've done it before. It takes time NOT to do that but it is very important to try. I think people think of "putting yourself first" as a selfish action but it isn't; you have to take care of you in order to have the strength and emotional ability to take care of anyone else.