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Old Jul 20, 2012, 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Sannah View Post
I think that it is because the person grew up in an insecure environment. In order to feel better, the person tries to control aspects of the environment in order to feel a little security. Doing this makes the future and the unknown very scary because the person's security depends on being able to control things.

When a child grows up in a healthy and secure environment they don't need to do this stuff.
Well that would fit perfectly . I grew up in an insecure environment, and I'm still in one.
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