Hello & Welcome, Mazzycat!
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Originally Posted by mazzycat
I'm the oldest of five and have been expected to be the strong one. ...
...if someone is upset or needs me I am there for them without thinking about myself.
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Those may be related. In fact, your "childhood" may be intruding into your present. But these are issues best left for a professional.
Consider what Leed has said. Try to figure out what
you really need and want -- not an easy task when one is so focused on others and their needs.
Here your complaints are welcome.
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My dog
mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.