The first time I saw my T in public, I didn't realize there was a 'rule' against being friends in real life, so I just smiled at him and was like, "Hey, how's it going? This is my hubbie. Hubbie, this is T." And then we chatted about basketball and our kids -- because that's where we were -- high school basketball tournament.

Since then, I've seen him in public only at my father in law's funeral. I walked up to thank him for coming and he hugged me. Then I introduced him to my daughter.

So, each time, it's been nice, and fine, and perfectly pleasant. My t is amazing at making sure I'm comfortable.