The last two times that I have seen T one of the first things that he commented on was the brusies on my arms.. There are simple explinations.. I have a two year old that is in a pinching and biting phase. Then today he says something along the lines of well you look tan so that tells me you have been getting outside and that is good for you. I said yes, my excersize is bike riding so I am outside a lot. Then he says, well your feet are tanned (I wear flip flops a lot) so you have been outside enjoying the sun. I said yes, my kids have been spending a lot of time at their swing set. He said, good.. glad to hear that I have been outside.

The more I thought about it, the more it made me very uncomfortable. Why is T noting marks on my skin.. I know he has to look at me, but still to comment on my my appearance freaks me out. I not accuses him of checking me out or anything.. It just makes me uncomfortable that he is taking note... Tell me I am not the only one that is freaked out by this stuff?