Second time I met current T, he asked me about a skin condition in my face. At this point, I was still seeing him as a pdoc, not a T. He asked if I wanted a referral to a dermatologist, and asked me a bunch of questions about why I'd never had it looked at and so on. I did not find that uncomfortable, because of the way he went about it - with another person I would have wanted to sink through the floor. With him it felt kind of caring, not intrusive.