I wear layers of clothing, long sleeved cardigans, in 100˚ weather. I have worn things with a couple of sequins on it (not flashy, I don't do flashy) and he has said things like "oh, sparkles, very pretty"...arg...Now I only wear plain dark clothing. When I switched from sneakers to sandals this year he commented on my pedicure looking nice and I was thinking "wtf, don't look at my feet", so now I switch back into sneakers when I go.