I don't know how big a family you have but I'd look through, in your mind, all your aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. and see if you cannot find a compatible soul. I have an aunt (she's 91 now) who was very helpful to me as I was working on my life issues. She and I wrote each other for a couple years and my therapist and I worked with things my aunt told me about my family, etc.