What is your address elliemay? I have a couple that I would like to lose I took my usually clueless male to the ER vets (we cannot make an appointment with a vet because it's very difficult to capture them to meet the timing of the appointment) just a couple days ago, I was afraid his kidneys were failing but he apparently might have arthritis in his hips is all, just needed some pain killer. A huge relieve for me, on to the next stressor.