B. never quit doing that to me. I don't recommend leaving him, but I left after 9 years of that and more emotional abuse. Mostly I grew and need more time to focus on a project that I got into and I am too tired for a relationship. So I don't think he is going to stop, but you can tune out when he is rude and not get upset, trying to not let him get under your skin. LIfe is short, enjoy the good points in the relationship. There must be several to appreciate, so dwell on those things mentally.