Awwwwww, Jan -- I'm so sorry, girlfriend. I don't know what else to say. I've felt helpless ever since I read your first post about all this. I hate not being able to make it better.

The Mafia cousins are still at your beck and call, though, and maybe I'll join them! The jerk who did this to you deserves it all and MORE. I have to believe that he'll get what's coming to him eventually -- but eventually is way too far down the road to make me happy.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( Jan ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I so wish I could help.

Much love,
Candy