i voted yes to give it to him. i am seeing a different t for years now and actually work professionally with my first t who did so much and means the world to me. i have never told him how much he helped me and how much i trusted him and appreciated him. hes the one who changed my life. i finally got brave enough to tell him how much i appreciate him thru a drunk texting bout with him after a case we worked on. it was a very special few lines i will always treasure and never regret.