Hi everyone....I wrote awhile back about my relationship with my T, for those who don't know her and I are dr./friends...I did alot of thinking about the responses I got here and also about something I will share in a minute...I am starting to see how the relationship is imbalanced...

I cannot call her at home, I have told her that I would never call her at home as a client but I still have to either leave her a message on her work cell, send her an email or go through her sister if I want to talk to her as a friend...This bothers me ALOT so I wrote her an email saying that I think we should go back to

being dr/client and she responded with "I think we should keep our Dr/Friend relationship intact it is beneficial and healthy"...Now I have been thinking does she really consider me a friend or is she keeping it dr./client in her mind and telling me we are friends...

I have Borderline Personality Disorder and until now I could not imagine her not being in my life but lately this not being able to call her as a friend is really getting to me...Cavi