but Kiiki, my closest friend does know some of what T knows; and I see in T a brilliant, interesting person I'd love to know IRL.

You may be different, maybe you are seeing a T for something that doesn't involve yr dark side, grief maybe, lots of other things.

In my own case anyway, I have a feeling I might be right... all the "ethics" rigmarole has never made sense to me, it's hogwash maybe you think? Let me be clear - I am NOT making a pitch for T2 to be my friend; she already knows the despicable thing I am, she would never ever want to be friends with someone like that. I was just thinking.