A few other times, he's teared up and it makes sense. I'm describing something horrible. What I'm realizing as I type this is that if I'm really sad, or crying, he DOESN'T cry. It's like he's concentrating more on my feelings. It's when I cannot or do not feel anything about what I'm talking about that he gets teary. Hmmm. I might have to think about that difference more. I wonder if it's some weird T trick, or if part of what makes him sad is that I don't even know that what I'm describing is sad, or abnormal (like the story from the first paragraph).