Hmmm I say yikes too. He might be in good physical shape but inner beauty or lack there of can quickly change someone's attractiveness.

And that's all I have to say about that. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Looks well .. Might be the first thing we notice, but someone who is very attractive physically can become very unattractive if their insides are not beautiful. Someone who isn't as physically attractive, by whoevers standards can become very very attractive if there insides are beautiful.

I'm finding what you are writing about him here, without seeing his physical appearance, not so attractive. There will be someone who sees you and gets to know you and thinks you are the bees knees just as you are. Keep that in mind Hamster.

I gained about 20lbs in three weeks, and I am very active, I was eating about 700 calories a day. I'd love someone to tell me I need to just diet more.

I happen to be a skinny girl because I've dealt with anorexia forever. However, one I thing I think that all posters in this thread should be able to agree on is that it isnt size that really matter, nor hair, nails, makeup or clothing. I am all for people feeling confident, but I don't see how being confident in yourself is ever a reason to say anything about others wether they are small or bigger. No need to say I am big and love myself and then say something about skinny people or vice versa. Sorry I picked up a hint of that in a post and think that's important.