Another thing I want to ask is role play normal with your psychiatrist? Two sessions ago we were talking about plastic surgeons as I had gotten my breast augmentation done and we were talking about body issues. So I was saying oh it must be nice to be married to a doctor and make that type of money. And my doctor said "yes but do you think they are all happy?" and I said "well I am not sure but there must be some with families and wives that truly are family men and just do work as they love." and his response was "ya do not tell me that they do not all have mistresses somewhere in South Beach they keep and they cheat on their wives." And then he said 'would you rather have the doc that cheats on his wife and makes over a million a year or the nice doctor that makes 800,000 and lives in a less exciting city? " (which I took to be him). So I said " I would pick the nice doctor then." And so then he said "let's do a role play and I will show you what it is like to be married to one of those rich men." It went on for 1 hour and in there he called me a ***** twice, told me that is my 'tits" started sagging I would be traded in for a younger version of myself, and that as long as we keep having sex with the lights on, he likes that and will keep me, and WAY more. Needless to say i was shocked. But he said he was just trying to show me how miserable life could be with one of those guys. He said he was only speaking professionally and not personally. So does this make this all right, including the compliments which I lap up...