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Originally Posted by earthmamma
I think until we have fully worked through he mourning what we didn't get, it will feel hard to be happy for others. It's not what others are getting/doing that we react too, it's what we didn't get/do that we act out on others. Until we shake out our pain, there is no room for joy.
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You are right. This is essentially a question of mourning.
I have managed to do some mourning and now I don't feel so bad.
Also, as an Aspie, I find it much easier to cope when I have a plan.
I have found a way to scrape up three thousand dollars over the next couple of months, and that puts me back in control of the finances.