Red flags popped up immediately when reading this post! Like previous comments I do believe this role play was to meet his own personal needs and the phrasing he used was highly inappropriate! It sounds as though he knows you like him and will do anything toto have a hold over you! Realistically what did that role play have to do with your therapy? You just asked him a simple question about his personal life and he took it one step further and used your hour and your money to persue his fantasy in having a relationship with you! It's sick, I have read that50% of psychiatrists abuse their clients and get struck off, and had he of used those words in front of me I would have reported him!