I've been scanning this thread for some time now ....wondering just how to apply my curious mind to it and wondering do I really have any business bein' here at all but we are all buddies here and I have no motives apart from I think.....I think and feel I may have something to add!

I'm a guy so it might count.

first up I will eliminate the word horrible...what a horrible word that is!

I'm not gonna go all cheesy weird either...if the world was not obsessed with a certain shape we mostly would be dis-affected and concentrating on the real elements of intimacy!

yes?....yes! (not in any particular order)

first up...a person can do incredible things with confident eyes a smile.

second...same person can arouse anyone with the right touch and want.

third...throw in some nice perfumes and clothes and whatever

fourth...amazing!! but yes you do have a personality you would be surprised just how intensely how much!

....comfort and the love be comin right back.

I had an 'overweight' girlfriend a while back she was georgeous her face her skin was lovely her hair and she was kind to me she had a lovely smell...and when she felt ok she moved sexy...she didn't own a bikini and I didn't give a damn!

I stuffed it up.

borderline boy strikes again!