Thank you Avid reader, I read that article too and it saddens me to think that it isn't really accepted or though of as a diagnosis. I myself have been wondering what the hell is wrong with me for so long that I can't just let go of my ex and our relationship, my therapist just said I have a hard time letting things go but this is more serious...the sense of loss consumes me that I can't think of anything else, it is eating me up and slowly killing me. i wish they would recognise it so they can find a cure