Time0, Sky is right. When they speak to you about the trauma, smile and tell them they only know half of the story. It's up to you whether you tell them your side or not.
I understand how painful it can be when people think they know the whole story. Your pain wants to scream out and it turns to rage inside of you. Don't let that happen to you, Sweet Time0. A better idea for you is to put your hand up if they start to say something. You have a right to say "I don't want to hear about it." You can also do this with a smile on your face.
Time0, you are LOVED here. We care about you.
We all wear our masks.
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.