I can relate struggling. It is challenging to do both, well. For me, my job was the distraction from therapy. It was really hard at first, actually, to separate therapy from work, but after a few months, once I finally settled into therapy and realized that my T wasn't going anywhere, I was able to "let go" of therapy during the day, and focus on my job. As soon as I got home from work (7:30am - 4:30pm), therapy became my main focus, even if it was a non-therapy day. I actually found myself needing that distraction from therapy while at work, otherwise I was getting consumed by my therapy, and was pretty much non-functioning.