He says he wants to work on things, try being friends and starting over, but he just seems to be going at it all wrong, I have given him two years to figure it out, he has agreed and let me go on a few dates, with and as Friends only. He tells people I am his wife-ish and we are only together because of the kids and money (last part I agree with) I am not looking to get married again or divorced, again, I thought things were working out well, then he flipped and now they are not so good, every little thing has to be a fight. and he is starting to pull me down with him. I just wish I knew what he wanted so I knew when it is ok to be happy.