thanks hankster. it really bothers me and makes me sad. im careful how i touch little kids too. like if im around any little kids, again its mostly girls, if they want to sit on my lap or give me a hug or anything...im like "uhhhh where do i put my hands? what is ok? am i doing something wrong? are people watching me like im a sicko?( i am NOT a sicko...but i have this fear that im doing something wrong) im assuming these fears and this paranoia is not normal unless you have been SA?