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It is always not just about just being bi-polar. Other people have the same problems. Because you have an addictive personality, you are literally addicted to this guy and to the drama. Therapy can help if you are not already getting it. Also some good books which I have read are about co-dependents. There are some good books out there. You can get them at the library or order on-line from Amazon.com. At our AA club they also have a group for co-dependents using the 12 steps. I went to quite a few meeting years ago and it definately helped me. You might want to check if there are any in your area.
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