I'm in a bit of a confusing situation as well. For a couple of years, I've identified as a transman (I'm 16). However, recently I started feeling less sure. I don't really feel like either gender, but genderqueer and androgyny don't really feel right. I want to be one or the other, but I don't know which. When I'm around girls, I feel like a guy, and I act like one. But around certain guys, I get quite feminine. It's rather unsettling.