As bad as this sounds granite, I think T's LOVE IT when we finally get to the point where we not only want to share what's happened with them, but actually do share it with them. It becomes a bonding experience for both the client and the T- and gives the T invaluable insight into what's happening in your world and in your head. That's when T can really start to step forward and help you. I think until that happens, many TY's feel frustrated because they don't know how to help because we don't/can't talk.

I can remember my T saying to me, "Talk to me. " or "You don't talk to me or tell me anything" which just wasn't true. I was talking to her and telling her things, but T's have a different, deeper meaning to the word talk and it wasn't until I actually said something that I thought was so inconsequential it didn't even need to be said, that I suddenly realized what T meant when she's say "talk to me'.

Oh! And you are no bother to me girlie. Not one little bit.