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Originally Posted by 3little.birds
I'm just really shy, too. Id love to join something if someone would do it with me  . Lol. Catch 22. I just lose either way. I'm either a b$!ch that doesn't let my bf have friends or I'm pathetic and lonely.
I love having parties. Its really the only time people act like they like me and want to hang out with me. Im fun to party with. I don't have my own home yet, though, so that only happens when my bfs parents go away, which isn't that often. |
That is the entire point .... challenge yourself....work on this with your T if you'd like to...shyness can be overcome. Also perhaps you can work on self-esteem issues.
Simply by joining a club, group, class, activity, you will automatically be with others that enjoy things that you do
Nobody has to pretend anything. I am sure you are quite lovely and have a lot to give.
Don't wait for others to come to you...you have to meet them at least half way, my dear.
Best wishes!
Rose