"Just remember you are the one who is in charge of your therapy, of who you see, and why you see them."

Thank you for reminding me!

Well, my "main" therapist (the one I saw first and told me about the grief centre)
She didn´t say she wouldn´t work with me if I did go for single grief counseling there,
but she told me to specifically ask for a group, not individual counceling. She thought it was a bad idea.
I´m also not sure I should tell the councelor I´m in therapy already (it got all a little mixed up, I think) because I´m afraid she won´t see me anymore, thinkin I´m being taken care of.... ? But she has a totally different knowledge of illness and death and grief, I believe that can really help too.