Here's how it happened: I was driving down to Louisville to see my twin grandsons and stopped at the Morehead, KY rest area for a break. On my way out, I heard, "Hi, Patty," and turned to see John. He was there on his way to a wedding ceremony of a friend's daughter. We talked on a bench for almost an hour. He and I had been in junior high/high school together, had a folk band together playing at assemblies, dated casually even in college. I thought, "WOW," he's now divorced, we know each other, etc.! He emailed several times asking to come over to see my house which I have just sold, and for me to see his house which he is fixing up. We live just minutes from each other. We each visited at each others' residences briefly, but during his time here at my home, he let me know quickly that he's interested in SEX!!!!, and that we "could have a good time" and he was ready to "sew his oats!" I told him we could have a good time without sex! I had hoped this would be someone with whom I could actually build a relationship! LOL. He called me once shortly thereafter, I think just to test the waters, and I remained impersonal.
I'm 55, have been thru the wringer with men, and will NEVER enter into another haphazard chaotic noncommital relationship with sex.
What do y'all think????
Seeker